A barren female, single, not attached or married, not dependent, pure as the driven snow, putting her needs first as she does not have a child's needs to come before hers, getting an education for herself, going to banquets in honor of herself and not her children, having free time, time to learn, to teach, to help others, to be the leader of other females, to be a chief executive officer, to not need to mikvah, incurring no impurities, living a life of total freedom, inner freedom and outer.
Not dependent on a child's successes as your status symbols, becoming a success herself. Going to school for advanced degrees, entering contests and being awarded prizes. She eats the richest of viands and they pour freely from the heavens in a celebration for her to be satiated, to always have enough.
Standing alone with inner peace on top of a rock at the sea and singing a song but not as a siren, not as a pregnant female, not as a Venus symbol of love but as a Woman of Wisdom, a Woman of Valor, a woman who was nurtured by G- d Himself, nurtured overflowing not with needy children, a woman who leads and gets respect, is at the top of the ladder.
Not being drained of breast milk, instead drinking it herself, not a pillar of salt, instead the real meaning of being The Tree of Life, everyone of your seeds being planted and growing as generation to generation, as works of your own, successes that are yours, and not being judged by the successes or failures of your children, instead on your own merit.
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