How to say "NO" and get someone to properly respond to you and to follow, to obey your wishes, to listen to your command. How to prevent someone from walking all over you and smashing you down into a splotch on the ground.
70 different ways to say "NO" like there are 70 faces (or opinions) to interpret the teachings of The Torah.
To be like a mule, a mule who has a mind of his own; to be a goat, a goat with a mind of his own; to not be pushed or pulled like a "Push-me Pull-you" creature that has no control over his actions other than to let others be the ones to control him.
To politely say "NO THANK YOU" sometimes works and sometimes it does not. It all depends on how polite is the person who is trying to sway you, to get you to perform the action he wants you to do, but that you do not want to do.
"TAKE A BUS, GUS" is another way to respond, using the fight/flight reaction that is given to you in your body through the secretion of the hormone Cortisol from the adrenal glands. But, before you let it get that far, to must use "flight" as a choice to avoid discomfort; to instead be firm, stand your ground, dig your heels deeply into the Earth (that is YOUR Earth too). You have this human right to be where you want to be, and to do what you want to do, or think what you want to think, no matter where is your location or who is the one trying to control you.
To be polite, conditionally, and to simply "opt out". To check this "opt out" box on your form, to be the one who decides if you want to opt out or not, and not let others be the ones to make this choice for you, especially if the choice they make is against your will.
To participate when and where you want to, with whom you want to, at your G-D given choice.
To say "NO" and to mean it and to get results!
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